Ministry Update – April, 2017

May 3rd is National Widow’s Day.  Currently there are 13 million widows in the United States.  God commands His church to visit widows and the fatherless in their time of distress.  The Apon Family will take time to remember those in our village who have come alongside of us helping me to raise my eight fatherless children as a widow.  If you would like to join us on May 18th as we testify of God’s faithfulness, please click on Village Appreciation Celebration for details and to RSVP.

Consider the following on this national holiday to remember the widow:


God is the overall covering for the widow.  He takes her under His wings and promises His protection.  God delights in taking care of the widow as Husband. She must learn to put her trust in Him. God cares about her spiritual, emotional, and physical needs along with her need for community. When she is walking through the dark “valley of the shadow of death,” God’s promises are of great encouragement:

Even the darkness is not dark to You, and the night is as bright as the day. Darkness and light are alike to You.” Psalm 139:12

“Choose life in order that you may live, you and your descendants.” Deuteronomy 30:19-20

Mrs. Widow…

…is a lady in transition in the context of pain.  (Side note:  She likes the “r” in Mrs. to remain longer than you might think). She may be young, a mommy, elderly, disabled, shut-in, financially impoverished or inherited a standard of living she is not ready to handle.  The widow community is made up of different personalities experiencing a range of emotions.  She is sad, distraught, stressed, angry, bitter, confused, disappointed, tired and afraid.  We seek to redirect her focus from man to God to bring life after death and turn sorrow into joy.  God gives examples of widows who pray, give, serve, trust and sing!  It is the desire of Perspective Ministries to disciple widows towards that goal.

God uses people

  • The glitter band-aid = friends, family, and even strangers who will rush in. They will act as the antibody that rushes to an ailment in the physical body until healing takes place.  This band-aid may stay by her side for the first year, but starts to peel away soon after that.
  • Support Squad = the core group of friends who will stick by her side. They are willing to go the distance with her, but may fall by the wayside after the second year. At this time, the widow finds herself in need of Christ to be her everything.

Jeremiah 49:11 “Let your widows trust in Me.”

God uses the church, the body of Christ

The WidowLife team is made up of the people God will use as she settles into her new normal helping to Light Their World. They will act as a gardener with a watering can of refreshment providing resources God will use to care for the following needs bringing growth for all:

  • Spiritual – discipleship
  • Emotional – grief support, counseling, and mentoring
  • Social – helping find fellowship and adjust to her new community..
  • Physical – practical needs met in ways that are meaningful to her.

In April, God allowed Perspective Ministries with the help of One Need to pressure wash some of the widow’s homes.  It only takes a little time to show how much you care.  It only takes a little time to answer someone’s biggest prayer.  Thank you for giving so that we may visit the widow.  If you would like to donate so that we can make a difference for many more ladies, please click here

Notes of appreciation for the gift of a pressure washed home:

Thank you and Perspective Ministries so much for having my home pressure washed. Words can not truly express how much I appreciate this gesture.  We have a pressure washer so I “attempted” to do this on my own last year. I quickly learned that this was a task that I could not do with the angle of my yard. Therefore, I knew that I would have to have this done professionally and added it to a long “to do list.” When, I received your message that this had been handled for me, tears came to my eyes for several reasons. One, it was a burden lifted,  but more importantly, I could feel the love of God and see His hand at work in meeting my needs. I also felt the love of my fellow man in reaching out to me to meet even so trivial of a need (there are so many others with much greater needs). I have had several home repair and maintenance issues over recent months and just to have one of these issues handled for me is truly both a relief and a blessing. This is a difficult month, as it is the second anniversary of my husband’s death. You and Perspective Ministries and those who donate their time and services spread the love of God and allow widows, like myself, to see some light in the darkness and to feel loved, cared for, and supported. Thank you so much for blessing my life and for allowing God to use you and your associates in such a beautiful and loving way.

It was a blessing to have my home pressure washed.  I have never been apart of a group that ministered to others the way you all have to me.  I want to also minister to those in anyway that I can. The blessing that this ministry and you individually have been to me are too many to list.  Thank you just seems not enough to say.

Thank you so much for pressure washing my house.  It was so helpful and now my house is sparkling and all the icky dirt is gone.  I am so blessed!